{"id":1415,"date":"2021-09-20T12:18:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-20T16:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/?p=1415"},"modified":"2021-09-20T12:20:19","modified_gmt":"2021-09-20T16:20:19","slug":"not-understanding-how-consent-works","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/2021\/09\/20\/not-understanding-how-consent-works\/","title":{"rendered":"Not understanding how consent works"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/us-news\/2021\/sep\/17\/texas-abortion-ban-jonathan-mitchell-supreme-court-brief\">the Guardian<\/a>: Jonathan Mitchell, the architect of Texas&#8217; abortion ban, claims that it doesn&#8217;t limit women&#8217;s ability to control their own bodies. Instead, &#8220;women can &#8216;control their reproductive lives&#8217; without access to abortion&#8221; because they can practice abstinence. This is a bad take in lots of ways, but it requires at minimum that all sex be consensual. If he took as hard a line against rape culture as he takes against women&#8217;s choice, one might believe that he isn&#8217;t just plumping for patriarchy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Docstockk\/status\/1439148415586275333\">on Twitter<\/a>: Kathleen Stock writes, &#8220;Some knowledge is essentially experiential- you can&#8217;t get knowledge of x, just by hearing description of x. Colours, tastes are like this.. and sexual pleasure. If you&#8217;ve never had sexual function, you can&#8217;t give informed consent to losing it imo: you can&#8217;t know what&#8217;s lost.&#8221; It&#8217;s an argument against puberty blockers, but it also has the immediate consequence that first sexual experiences can&#8217;t be consensual.<span id='easy-footnote-1-1415' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/2021\/09\/20\/not-understanding-how-consent-works\/#easy-footnote-bottom-1-1415' title=' Feminists are &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.snopes.com\/fact-check\/rape-seeded\/&quot;&gt;too often misquoted&lt;\/a&gt; as saying &lt;em&gt;all sex is rape&lt;\/em&gt;, so let&amp;#8217;s be clear\u2014 Stock&amp;#8217;s view merely entails that all first-times are rape.'><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Via the Guardian: Jonathan Mitchell, the architect of Texas&#8217; abortion ban, claims that it doesn&#8217;t limit women&#8217;s ability to control their own bodies. Instead, &#8220;women can &#8216;control their reproductive lives&#8217; without access to abortion&#8221; because they can practice abstinence. This is a bad take in lots of ways, but it requires at minimum that all &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/2021\/09\/20\/not-understanding-how-consent-works\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Not understanding how consent works&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[33],"tags":[22],"class_list":["post-1415","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-link-dump","tag-politics"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7PjAo-mP","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1415","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1415"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1415\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1416,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1415\/revisions\/1416"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1415"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1415"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fecundity.com\/nfw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1415"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}